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Monday, August 15th, 2022 11:25 am
My “sweet summer child” of a D&D player had a bit of a grumble at me yesterday. Not for the first time, nor even the 20th time. I don’t know why he plays in my games if he doesn’t like the way I run them.

Long story: one of the characters in my game died (he came victim to a Beholder Zombie, which unleashed its death ray on him and reduced him to ashes) and though it wasn’t SSC’s character he said he didn’t play D&D for characters to die.

I understand that people don’t play D&D for characters to die willy-nilly, but I maintain it has to be one of the risks characters face. Otherwise, there’s no tension.

In another game, for example, where I’m a player, my current paladin character has nine hit points max (he started the fight with 48 max) a result of encountering a Wraith and doing battle with it. Which is what you’d expect a paladin character to do, despite the risk he’s facing. Wraiths have a Life Drain action which reduces you max hit points, and they’re quite hard to get back, needing particular high level spells or a lot of time. I did not whinge about it, though I am hoping he’ll survive long enough to get back to his max of 48.

In short, there has to be danger, and not just the danger of losing a few hit points.
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Monday, August 22nd, 2022 08:53 am (UTC)
" he said he didn’t play D&D for characters to die."

Then he shouldn't be playing the game.

He'd REALLY hate our D&D games. One of my fellow players regularly has to roll up a new character when the one he's playing dies (due, largely, to his reckless playing style, admittedly), and other memebrs of the party have died just durign the current campaign.... it's one of the risks of the game - I know it's "just a game," but, as you say, there has to be danger beyond the loss of a few hit-points.... Besides, as it is "jsut a game, " why would it be an issue of a character dies?

This griping player either needs to accept it's going to happen, or find someone elses games to pay in, and hope they don't encounter the same issue there.

Teddy
Tuesday, August 23rd, 2022 12:13 pm (UTC)
Perhaps he's just one of those people who isn't happy unless he has somethig to gripe about...

Teddy
Tuesday, August 23rd, 2022 07:10 pm (UTC)
Have you tried asking why, if he has so many compaints, he's playing in your games...?

Teddy