Question for all and sundry about present giving

[lexin]

I've asked my colleagues and they've gone 'hmmmmm', so I turn to you as the founts of all knowledge and wisdom.

The reason behind this question is that I'm confused; my aunts and uncles never gave me presents so the question never arose with me. (This was due to a family contretemps involving my parents which I won't go into here but was labyrinthine.)

But it occurred to me that my nephews are 18 this year and should be each their own man soon. So do I carry on giving them presents at Christmas and birthdays or don't I? I don't know what the rules are here, or even if there are any. I have no intention, btw, of stopping without mentioning it to their parents.

Poll #12772 Presents for nephews

Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: Access List, participants: 14

How old should my nephews be before I stop giving them birthday and Christmas presents?

18
1 (7.1%)

21
0 (0.0%)

working in paid employment
4 (28.6%)

something else I will explain in comments
7 (50.0%)

never stop giving them birthday and Christmas presents
2 (14.3%)

Comments

[dancing_serpent]

Uh, difficult topic. I never got presents from uncles/aunts and I don't give presents to my nephew. Some of my father's family do it like that: nephews/nieces/(grand)children get presents as long as they are all unmarried/without children. So it's always the youngest generation that gets presents. My grandmother stopped giving presents to us grandchildren when the first great-grandchild arrived, for example.

[lexin]

That's interesting. I think they're a while away from having children. I hope so, anyway.